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was falling in love... or fell... not sure.
bad idea... really bad idea
too much drama
I had worse fights with her then with my wife
and I couldn't handle the jealousy
no win? that's complicated
the husband of a friend of my wife left her for an escort... (drove away in a ford escort)... it didn't last
I think the biggest problem is that it would be difficult to develop trust (for both)
How could she ever trust him to not cheat? and vice versa.
How could he really trust that her motive was love and not just money?
I don't know of any couple who have had a successful relationship long term.
But I'm sure some have formed lasting relationships.
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I think it depends on the definition of love. Traditional, monogamous relationships are challenging for both provider/client on every level in this industry. A more open definition of loving someone which embodies the concept that you don't possess/control anothers actions allows for a very different dynamic to develop. I have a couple of relationships that have evolved over time; one is almost 12 years, another is 9 years and they are both going strong within the dynamic boundaries we've established. Both are partnered, they've met on several occasions and both support me in all aspects of my life; I can't imaging my life without them. I don't "date" them, there is no need to change their lives for me and I don't have to change my life for them. I simply I love them. There are ebbs and flows, like any relationship but their unconditional love is solid and true for me...
smiles, cat
smiles, cat
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it's a one in a million chance. i was never in escorting for money bc when i started i didn't need it. i just genuinely loved sex! since we met through my job, there are no secrets. we've been together for one year and haven't had a single disagreement yet. doesn't happen to everyone, i just came into this job with a different mindset and met the man of my dreams 
kirk and ray, you guys can throw up now!!
kirk and ray, you guys can throw up now!!
Dont forget uncle Peter Baires,.it's a one in a million chance. i was never in escorting for money bc when i started i didn't need it. i just genuinely loved sex! since we met through my job, there are no secrets. we've been together for one year and haven't had a single disagreement yet. doesn't happen to everyone, i just came into this job with a different mindset and met the man of my dreams
kirk and ray, you guys can throw up now!!
Its all true im the luckiest guy in the world, never expected anything like this to happen but im sure glad it did, never a dull moment:biggrin2:
Cue throwing up again for those 3. :LMAO:
i just came into this job with a different mindset and met the man of my dreams
Word out there is that he has a 2 inch penis. I feel for you but you can always give me a call.
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Is this a dejavu all over again topic? Pretty sure this has all been said and done before.
Yes, I love my ladies. No I don't want a relationship, no don't want them to change thier life for me, no I won't be taking any hostages.
All this talk I see about relationships and everyone expects their partner to change to meet thier desires, wants.
If they change, they wouldn't be the person you fell in love with in the first place!
The ladies I love are the ones with goals and desires and ambition. I wish them all the best and encourage and support them on thier way. I have no desire to get in thier way or fuck up thier life with a 'relationship'.
Yes, I love my ladies. No I don't want a relationship, no don't want them to change thier life for me, no I won't be taking any hostages.
All this talk I see about relationships and everyone expects their partner to change to meet thier desires, wants.
If they change, they wouldn't be the person you fell in love with in the first place!
The ladies I love are the ones with goals and desires and ambition. I wish them all the best and encourage and support them on thier way. I have no desire to get in thier way or fuck up thier life with a 'relationship'.
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this is one of those instances where age reaaally doesn't matter but love and trust after getting out of the industry does
Give it a few months and you you will get bored of the old man Funky & Music
Really, if he is 20 years or older than you then there may be a problem. Way too long to explain unless there are others here that have been in a similar situation.
A 20 year difference isn't particularly uncommon. A lot middle age men leave their wives for younger women... typically most common amongst the rich... Trump for example is married to a woman 25 years younger than he is.
Yes, I forgot to mention to give it an extra 5 years if you are wealthy. But think about it.
If she is 20 and he is 50. Sex is great, so is shopping and walks in romantic places etc.... Then what?. What more can you talk about?. You do have to remember that at 20 she is a teenager and at 50 he has seen or experienced much in life. Sorry to say but having such a big age difference gap never works. Don't kid yourself.
I can write a book about it from experience.
