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How Do You Look At Your SP

Madman

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This is mainly from another board. A member compared an SP to the same as buying a hamburger, hammock etc..... and of course some ladies and rightfully so in my opinion took offence to this.

I enjoy a good review, especially truthful negative ones because it saves all of us money but this should always be done tactfully because we are dealing with feelings and emotions.

Gentlemen, how do you feel about the services and the ladies you pay for...

Sorry, I just watched an episode of What Would You DO?
 
As in all business it is a buyer beware market. Some ladies I have paid to spend time with have been less than stellar. Could have been me or they were having a bad day. Lesson learned and move on. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and to have their dignity perserved. Almost everbody.
I am a creature of habit and tend to stick with what is familiar and what I like. So few surprises but always the urg to try something a little different.
I appreciate that there are beautiful ladies out there with great personalities that will spend time with me and make me feel so good.
I only see the ladies once or twice a month at most so my visits are something I look forward to like a kid at Christmas.
So, it is not like buying a "hamburger or a hammock" there are as you say emotions and feelings involved.
That is how I see the ladies and the services they provide, how they feel about providing those services to me may be a whole different thing altogether. :)
 
Beached said:
As in all business it is a buyer beware market. Some ladies I have paid to spend time with have been less than stellar. Could have been me or they were having a bad day. Lesson learned and move on. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and to have their dignity perserved. Almost everbody.
I am a creature of habit and tend to stick with what is familiar and what I like. So few surprises but always the urg to try something a little different.
I appreciate that there are beautiful ladies out there with great personalities that will spend time with me and make me feel so good.
I only see the ladies once or twice a month at most so my visits are something I look forward to like a kid at Christmas.
So, it is not like buying a "hamburger or a hammock" there are as you say emotions and feelings involved.
That is how I see the ladies and the services they provide, how they feel about providing those services to me may be a whole different thing altogether. :)

Hmmmmmm
 
Well thankfully that/those "member/s" have a handle and hopefully it is used when he/they book, so many of us "hamburgers or hammocks" can avoid "it" :) Sadly there are many men in all walks of life that think of women as no more than pieces of meat, and there are also some women who unfavorably look at some men. How refreshing it is when we meet all the other warm, lovely human beings, that have some understanding of people and warmth:)
 
Hmm, what at interesting topic. Well, I think it's very hard to tell how a person is, if you haven't met them in person. I like it when an SP puts the effort to describe themselves or add extra tidbits of text (or something that brings a bit of personality).It really has to be about mutual enjoyment for me; whether it's conversing or exploring, I feel like daty is one (if not, only) thing I look for during a session. It's really difficult for me to explain how it feels, although its definitely not like a hamburger. I would say its like therapy, just two human beings doing natural things. I think we are all victims of circumstance and people do have bad days, they may also have misconceptions about someone. The beautiful ladies I have seen have been nothing but wonderful, I've learned and tried and have had wonderful conversations. I think it's unnecessary to berrate a person and potentially destroy their business (if something was not to your liking). A good business is a company with returning customers, the weeds will pick itself.

When you're looking through that window, just remember the other side isn't a mirror. There's good and bad on both sides.
 
Madman said:
This is mainly from another board. A member compared an SP to the same as buying a hamburger, hammock etc..... and of course some ladies and rightfully so in my opinion took offence to this.

I enjoy a good review, especially truthful negative ones because it saves all of us money but this should always be done tactfully because we are dealing with feelings and emotions.

Gentlemen, how do you feel about the services and the ladies you pay for...

Sorry, I just watched an episode of What Would You DO?

Up if she is taller than me.

Down if she is shorter than me.
 
I hated the asian forum for the brief time I was there. The way many of the members talked about the SPs they saw was cringe-worthy for me. Maybe it was the literal translations from chinese...but I shudder whenever someone there calls a SP "mei mei" as in little sister. Ugh, talk about gross.

I like to look at, and think of the women in this biz as people, first and foremost. Anything less is just not acceptable to me.
 
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