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#MeToo movement named TIME magazine's 2017 Person of the Year

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Doesn't surprise me at all.

In the wake of revelations about Harvey Weinstein and other men, millions have shared their stories about being sexually harassed and assaulted.

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”The Silence Breakers” — those who have shared their stories about sexual assault and harassment — have been named Time magazine’s Person of the Year.

Numerous women have spoken out since October about sexual misconduct by dozens of high-profile men in entertainment, media, business and sports. Time praised those who have given “voice to open secrets, for moving whisper networks onto social networks, for pushing us all to stop accepting the unacceptable.” The magazine’s cover features Ashley Judd, Taylor Swift and others who say they have been harassed.

Time’s announcement was made Wednesday on NBC’s Today show, where longtime host Matt Lauer was fired last week amid harassment allegations. Today host Savannah Guthrie acknowledged Wednesday that this year’s winner hits “close to home” and mentioned Lauer by name.

Women who spoke out, initially against Hollywood mogul Harvey Weinstein and then others, helped to spawn the #MeToo movement, with millions of people telling stories of sexual misconduct on social media.

The tweets, Instagram and Facebook posts began after actress-activist Alyssa Milano followed on a suggestion from a friend of a friend on Facebook and tweeted: “If you’ve been sexually harassed or assaulted write ‘me too’ as a reply to this tweet.” The hashtag was tweeted nearly a million times in 48 hours. #MeToo was actually founded by activist Tarana Burke a decade ago to raise awareness about sexual violence. Milano has said she wasn’t aware of Burke’s contributions when she made her initial tweet and has since publicly credited her.

Milano and Burke appeared together Wednesday on the Today show.

“This is just the start. I’ve been saying from the beginning it’s not just a moment, it’s a movement,” Burke said. “Now the work really begins.”
“As women, we have to support each other and stand together and say, ‘That’s it. We’re done. No more,’” Milano said. “It’s vital to me that we really set in some actionable things that we can do to continue this momentum.”

#MeToo movement named TIME magazine’s 2017 Person of the Year | Toronto Star

 
Don't get me started on this debate. Had one with male and female friends and both agreed that it's more a fad than anything else. Don't get me wrong as you should never touch a woman but please why bring it up after 20 years, who remembers that far?.
 
Don't get me started on this debate. Had one with male and female friends and both agreed that it's more a fad than anything else. Don't get me wrong as you should never touch a woman but please why bring it up after 20 years, who remembers that far?.


I just shocked a man/client who I only saw once, by reminding him of when we saw each other almost 15 years ago. That was because it was a great time.

You dont think a person will remember a bad time of being sexually harassed or assaulted?

I was molested as a child from 3-7years old. Some would say that is why I am in the sex industry today. Some would say that negative impact on my life, that scar that has been left, is why I behave the way I do now.

This shit changes people. It is impactful. This is time where more people, not enough but more people understand why sexual harassment is wrong. 20 years ago - not so much. Now was a safer time to bring these up. I could not charge my molester. I could not confront him at the time or even in my teens. I could do so now. 30 years later. Am I not suppose to now because so much time as gone by? I mean if I ambeing real, he taught me at 4 how to suck a dick. Am I suppose shut up about that? Am I not allowed to post or tweet or skywrite his name above Toronto? He has the right to live in peace because I didn't charge him back in the day?

What pisses me off about statements like yours is it seems you want these women to continue to remain silent and that in itself is a part of a person's victimization. Keeping things silent is the worst thing for a victim. They need to let it out to heal.

Regardless of whether people are charged 20 years later is moot. There were a lot of women healed by this movement this year. A lot of women who were able to put a negatively impactful time behind them.


Are you really saying that all that healing alone is wrong? Shouldn't have happened simply because their assaults were 20 years ago or because you think this movement is stupid and you are sick of hearing it?
 
A-fucking-men! Now even so called feminists are tearing the movement down, apparently completely unaware of how much strength many OTHER women drew and are drawing from it. I have seen men and women speak up about trauma from so long ago that they'd be afraid and ashamed to admit before now. It moves me and fills my heart with compassion.

Oh, and #metoo.


I just shocked a man/client who I only saw once, by reminding him of when we saw each other almost 15 years ago. That was because it was a great time.

You dont think a person will remember a bad time of being sexually harassed or assaulted?

I was molested as a child from 3-7years old. Some would say that is why I am in the sex industry today. Some would say that negative impact on my life, that scar that has been left, is why I behave the way I do now.

This shit changes people. It is impactful. This is time where more people, not enough but more people understand why sexual harassment is wrong. 20 years ago - not so much. Now was a safer time to bring these up. I could not charge my molester. I could not confront him at the time or even in my teens. I could do so now. 30 years later. Am I not suppose to now because so much time as gone by? I mean if I ambeing real, he taught me at 4 how to suck a dick. Am I suppose shut up about that? Am I not allowed to post or tweet or skywrite his name above Toronto? He has the right to live in peace because I didn't charge him back in the day?

What pisses me off about statements like yours is it seems you want these women to continue to remain silent and that in itself is a part of a person's victimization. Keeping things silent is the worst thing for a victim. They need to let it out to heal.

Regardless of whether people are charged 20 years later is moot. There were a lot of women healed by this movement this year. A lot of women who were able to put a negatively impactful time behind them.


Are you really saying that all that healing alone is wrong? Shouldn't have happened simply because their assaults were 20 years ago or because you think this movement is stupid and you are sick of hearing it?
 
The feminist in me wants to scream dont victim blame. I have been date raped, and unless you have you can't possibly understand the internal struggle that comes with it in the aftermath, the questioning yourself, had you been clear enough? Could you have fought harder? etc etc. Date rape is fucking confusing to define.

That being said, I read her story and it does not sound as if she gave any clear signals that she wasn't into it. She went back to his place after he cut dinner short, she undressed, she let him go down on her, then throughout the next hour she went down on him twice, at no point saying "No". Now, she did ask to slow things down and should he have done a better job assessing the situation? Absolutely. But her signals were mixed at best and he is human. Is is sexual assault? Short of being in the room and knowing exactly what happened I don't think any of us can say, but it was most definitely a case of miscommunication and we could probably all learn from that.

(just my humble opinion)
 
Affirmative yes is the only way to get around the communication issue.

Yes - this does not stop false accusations or mind changing etc, but leaving the old No Means No mantra and changing to Yes Means Yes would go along way in situations like this.
 
And in other news: The Brothers Grimm and charged with 2 counts of promoting rape.
 
I just shocked a man/client who I only saw once, by reminding him of when we saw each other almost 15 years ago. That was because it was a great time.

You dont think a person will remember a bad time of being sexually harassed or assaulted?

I was molested as a child from 3-7years old. Some would say that is why I am in the sex industry today. Some would say that negative impact on my life, that scar that has been left, is why I behave the way I do now.

This shit changes people. It is impactful. This is time where more people, not enough but more people understand why sexual harassment is wrong. 20 years ago - not so much. Now was a safer time to bring these up. I could not charge my molester. I could not confront him at the time or even in my teens. I could do so now. 30 years later. Am I not suppose to now because so much time as gone by? I mean if I ambeing real, he taught me at 4 how to suck a dick. Am I suppose shut up about that? Am I not allowed to post or tweet or skywrite his name above Toronto? He has the right to live in peace because I didn't charge him back in the day?

What pisses me off about statements like yours is it seems you want these women to continue to remain silent and that in itself is a part of a person's victimization. Keeping things silent is the worst thing for a victim. They need to let it out to heal.

Regardless of whether people are charged 20 years later is moot. There were a lot of women healed by this movement this year. A lot of women who were able to put a negatively impactful time behind them.


Are you really saying that all that healing alone is wrong? Shouldn't have happened simply because their assaults were 20 years ago or because you think this movement is stupid and you are sick of hearing it?


This.
Thank you, Jessica. You said it better than I ever could.
 
[h=1]#MeToo and lessons from the unfriendly skies[/h]The human rights complaint from 8,500 Air Canada flight attendants is the latest development in public discussion about sexual harassment in the workplace. It’s important to remember, though, that these issues are not new and that women have long faced harassment at work and elsewhere.

#MeToo and lessons from the unfriendly skies | Toronto Star

 
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