SP & Travel

[Hector17]

SO...that worked out well...REALLY well. She is absolutely stoked about joining me there for a few (5-6) days, and thanks for those negotiating tips. I told her I was happy to offer an expense paid trip, incl air fare, cabs,boarding the dogs, medical insurance etc, and just smiled when I asked what other costs I should expect...the rate she gave to replace lost wages is MORE THAN REASONABLE, and yes, I ...we..will have a blast...and at much less than I was prepared to accept...we even practiced "spooning" before I left lol..She knows I am embarking on a basically native type adventure, and is thrilled to experience it that way...she's a fantastic gal...so down to earth, and enthusiastic. I know this is a "benefit' of being a regular, and enjoying an easygoing , fun, relationship with her...I cant wait!

 

[paul mott]

Hector that's fantastic news, and so glad that it not only worked out, but better than you had expected. I'm envious of you being able to spend that much time with such a hottie, not just physically but also great personality. As I suspected, she probably felt she'd be sending you the wrong message if she had asked for an unreasonable amount, given all your other costs, and also the friendship you two have. When are you going?

 

[Hector17]

I am going Jan 9-Feb 6th...she will likely come on the 14th, and stay til 19th or 20th...or come on the 26th, and leave Feb 1st?...I hesitate to have her come near the end because it's always possible that I will hook up with a local hottie there, and dont want to have to duck any unpleasantness if she comes along later in the going

 

[paul mott]

Something to be said about having a regular, as it doesn't feel like a business arrangement, and instead a nice friend with benefits. Nice way to give yourself the ultimate Christmas gift!

 

[blackram]

Wow, so do you mind me asking you, how much less she is charging you than you were prepared to pay?

 

[Hector17]

No...it'll come in at about $1,000-$1500 less....there are some peripherals, like boarding her pets etc that are included, or it would've been even better! She is very excited to go...I can tell she is thrilled that I asked her. It has a bit to do wuith the location as Ecuador is a bit of an adventure, having never been there...a place like Miami would've cost a LOT more, both in her expenses and rate. She is happy to experience the B&B style I will be in in Quito, and then the more modest type hotels that the Ecuadorans vacation in vs American tourists. I told her it may be a bit "Bohemian", and she was totally on board,

 

[paul mott]

That's an unbelievably awesome rate, as using $1,500 divided by just 5 days, at 24hrs a day, is $12.50 an hour!! That's like minimum wage rate, but in your case it's maximum fun rate! You realize however that spending that much time together, will enhance your connection together more than could ever happen any other way.

 

[mmad]

That's an unbelievably awesome rate, as using $1,500 divided by just 5 days, at 24hrs a day, is $12.50 an hour!!

I think he means $1500 less than he was anticipating, not a cost of $1500, but I may be reading it wrong !!

 

[Hector17]

Exactly...I was prepared to go to $5k, and it'll be a bout 4...dog boarding, medical insce, cabs, incidentals on top of her rate bring it up. No complaints. She told me her reg travel companion rate is $1500 a day, so she is treating me very well....and money aside, I'll treat her well too...we'll have a blast

 

[blackram]

Dog boarding? Does that mean she's bringing her dogs along, or that she's putting them up in a kennel here in Ottawa?

 

[blackram]

BTW, is this your Monique?

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[paul mott]

No this one, and now you know why he's so excited...how could anyone not be excited and envious of him. Can you imagine waking up every morning for 5-6 days beside someone like her!! They say you have to die before going to heaven, but he'll be alive and in heaven..

 

[blackram]

Damn, too bad the face pix are blurred out in her gallery.

 

[Hector17]

To me...she is one of the most beautiful women I have ever been with, and/or seen in person. + I admire, and respect her, and thoroughly enjoy her company.

BTW: That is the website, and next week (17th or 19th), we (Erica, Monique and I) will be enjoying our combo Birthday/Christmas Duo...it's sensational with that black/white thing going on..high energy and just the right amount of interactive.

 

[paul mott]

Hector you dirty old duo man, I'm sure glad I'm not into something as kinky as that....LOL! Given how you and Monique are such a good match, you must wonder what it would be like had you met each other much earlier in your life. Life is a lot of luck, being in the right place at the right time, and sometimes being in the wrong place at the wrong time. It applies to almost everything, jobs, the people you meet, where you end of living etc. I've certainly met several girls who I could have been very compatible with, but timing was wrong.

Surprised you're not out doing this

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/golfing-december-ottawa-1.3353009

 

[Hector17]

you must wonder what it would be like had you met each other much earlier in your life.

Yes..of course I have daydreamed of it...she is 27, or so, years younger than me, so that is the first major obstacle, but for sure fantasizing is fun. She is well aware that, under different circumstances, I'd have put a "full court press" on for her to be mine haha...I have a hard time containing my complimentary words and gestures lol

As for golf...well I played about 80 games this summer, so not desperate to play in single digit temps....I am more of a +70 'F kind of guy

 

[paul mott]

Unfortunately not all our dreams come true, but you did get to play 80 rounds of golf, and maybe you've played 80 rounds with Monique too.
Golf and Monique have some things in common, strokes, and lots of holes played with your driver!!

 

[mmad]

No this one, and now you know why he's so excited...how could anyone not be excited and envious of him. Can you imagine waking up every morning for 5-6 days beside someone like her!! They say you have to die before going to heaven, but he'll be alive and in heaven..

OMG, Hector you lucky bugger! She is beautiful for sure.

 

[slurp]

sounds pretty freakin awesome to me. have fun!

 

[Ryan1967]

Glad it is less than what you budgeted which was (cough) 5k...I guess the expression "go big or go home" could apply here. This had me thinking...so she is asking for 3.5k - 4k for lost wages for 5-6 days; at 250 per client, I guess that means she is seeing 3-4 day. I guess that is medium volume, low would be 1-2, high would be be 6-8, extreme high 8-10.