Still making friends...Or not! Suspect I will really light up the board tonight...

[Madman]

I believe this is meant to be a round table.
Where everyone has the same right to speak.

Exactly, what disappoints me more than anything is to have people leave because other people don't say what they want to hear. Boing leaves because his feelings are offended, Femme you are threatening to leave because T doesn't lay out a red carpet. Come on, where would I be if I picked up and folded my tent everytime a group of people shit in my backyard, yeah it's happened LMAO, I did take pictures.

People grow a thick skin and have fun. It's not about being coddled and everyone agreeing with everything we say and do even though I know Cardinal and Train believe in everything I say and do. Actually Train and LittleStick are coming to my place to help me design new signs for the next big protest!:biggrin2:

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

He's not my boy . . . and he's already made it clear I'm a pussy for the things I say.

You are still ranking higher then me. You are just pussy, I am worse because I actually have one.

 

[train]

He acts as if he speaks for the brotherhood with his comments of how SOOOOO many men agree with him but you are all too pussy to say anything. I am sorry but talk to your boy. He is not one man's opinion, he is the voice of all men. That is his painting, not mine.

You are jumping to conclusions. tboy can paint what ever picture he wants . He is entitled to his opinion. Quite often I think his paintintings are 1960's "Paint By Numbers" efforts and I have a right to that opinion as do you. What I really object to is you painting all men ( to continue the analogy) with the same brush. Ypu are severely underestimating us and quite frankly I find it every bit as sexist as he sometimes is.

 

[Madman]

He acts as if he speaks for the brotherhood with his comments of how SOOOOO many men agree with him but you are all too pussy to say anything. I am sorry but talk to your boy. He is not one man's opinion, he is the voice of all men. That is his painting, not mine.

I represent the masses when I say corporate greed will be the down fall of working men.

Really is it that easy, come Femmefatale really is it?

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

Exactly, what disappoints me more than anything is to have people leave because other people don't say what they want to hear. Boing leaves because his feelings are offended, Femme you are threatening to leave because T doesn't lay out a red carpet. Come on, where would I be if I picked up and folded my tent everytime a group of people shit in my backyard, yeah it's happened LMAO, I did take pictures.

People grow a thick skin and have fun. It's not about being coddled and everyone agreeing with everything we say and do even though I know Cardinal and Train believe in everything I say and do. Actually Train and LittleStick are coming to my place to help me design new signs for the next big protest!:biggrin2:

Excuse me, do not SIR put words in my mouth. I am NEVER ONCE said to roll out the red carpet. I am not that way at all. But I am not about to be picked apart for my opinion simply because I am a woman and he feels it is his duty to put me back in my place. I am sorry but I don't roll like that and I don't NEED to be here. I am not going to be a member of place where I have to fight for my right to have a voice and fight for my right to be given the respect I deserve because I am a person. Not get it double simply because I am woman and he has issues with pussy.

I was not out there with signs screaming EQUAL RIGHTS! I have come here and tried to change my tone of my posts, and ensure that I am not coming across as forceful as I usually seem. I am opening up to the board, sharing personal stories I do not even share on the others boards. I am try. He paints all women the same and has disdain for them. Period. He is unwilling to make room for both sexes. In his mind, this board should not change at all and if we women don't like it, get the fuck out.

So I am not letting the door hit me while I leave, but you can watch my ass as I go.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

You are jumping to conclusions. tboy can paint what ever picture he wants . He is entitled to his opinion. Quite often I think his paintintings are 1960's "Paint By Numbers" efforts and I have a right to that opinion as do you. What I really object to is you painting all men ( to continue the analogy) with the same brush. Ypu are severely underestimating us and quite frankly I find it every bit as sexist as he sometimes is.

And yet he is allowed to spew his venom of women with no recourse. Why would I be somewhere where I can be called a cunt simply because he doesn't agree with my opinion? Why would I set myself up for that.

Or better yet - be called out for my spelling and grammar and reading issues. Because it is fun for him but for me I was unable to read until I was 17, have a learning disability as well as vision impairment I am still trying to get use to. Ya, let's make fun of a person but who cares about the reasons behind it. He still makes fun of Bliss for her writing and you all say, well he is entitled to his opinion.

You are right, he is. I just don't have to be involved in it by subjecting myself to it.

I know that not all the men here are like that. I truly do. But by posting I leave myself open to his right to reply and his style of reply is in my opinion "woman=attack, belittle, tear down and hurt". I hope that makes sense.

 

[Madman]

Excuse me, do not SIR put words in my mouth. I am NEVER ONCE said to roll out the red carpet. I am not that way at all. But I am not about to be picked apart for my opinion simply because I am a woman and he feels it is his duty to put me back in my place. I am sorry but I don't roll like that and I don't NEED to be here. I am not going to be a member of place where I have to fight for my right to have a voice and fight for my right to be given the respect I deserve because I am a person. Not get it double simply because I am woman and he has issues with pussy.

I was not out there with signs screaming EQUAL RIGHTS! I have come here and tried to change my tone of my posts, and ensure that I am not coming across as forceful as I usually seem. I am opening up to the board, sharing personal stories I do not even share on the others boards. I am try. He paints all women the same and has disdain for them. Period. He is unwilling to make room for both sexes. In his mind, this board should not change at all and if we women don't like it, get the fuck out.

So I am not letting the door hit me while I leave, but you can watch my ass as I go.

Fine I won't put words in your mouth because it's something else I'd rather put in it sorry and of course I would be looking at your ass leaving but I'd rather look at your boobage carriage walking in sorry again.

So what your saying is there is not room for the both of you so either you leave or the other get's forced to tone it down or banned, NOW is that fair? I don't think so because I honestly believe everyone has a right to their own opinion. If truth be told I enjoy reading your posts and I also enjoy reading T's posts. Do I agree with both of you all the time, absolutely not but that doesn't mean I would pick up my tent and fold it up.

Femme don't pull a boing because that's not what strong, smart, tough , articulate individuals like yourself do. Instead they do as Red Velvet has suggested, pitch your tent, draw a line in the sand and say in a firm voice, "bring it"

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

Fine I won't put words in your mouth because it's something else I'd rather put in it sorry and of course I would be looking at your ass leaving but I'd rather look at your boobage carriage walking in sorry again.

So what your saying is there is not room for the both of you so either you leave or the other get's forced to tone it down or banned, NOW is that fair? I don't think so because I honestly believe everyone has a right to their own opinion. If truth be told I enjoy reading your post and I also enjoy reading T's posts. Do I agree with both of you all the time, absolutely not but that doesn't mean I would pick up my tent and fold it up.

Femme don't pull a boing because that's not what strong, smart, tough , articulate individuals like yourself do. Instead they do as Red Velvet has suggested, pitch your tent, draw a line in the sand and say in a firm voice, "bring it"

I came here with a different intent then when I post on other boards. I wanted HUBGFE to my home away from home where I can feel safe in sharing. It is the only place I have shared my most intimate details of my life. The only place I have offer free photoshoots, the only place I actually try very hard to watch what I say. Normally I am very much "bring it" but that is not what I wanted HUBGFE to be for me. I didn't want to come here and feel like I have to battle all the time. I have to be on guard on the time. I have enough of that on the other boards. It has nothing to do with that. Anyone who knows me, knows I will always fight the good fight.

However here - I wanted to simply be Jess. Not Ms. Fatale - strong, forceful, opinionated woman. I just wanted to be Jess - happy, playful, tearful, sharing, soft, docile even. I am a woman of both sides. To be Jess, I need to feel safe. With him and his "right" to post and have an opinion. I do not feel safe. I do not want to turn this board into a war zone for him and I to back and forth on things and I know it will. He is too angry of man who has his hate for women. In my opinion. FUCK - the fact that I have to watch and make sure I put IMO is piss off when I know he will just say, "don't let the door hit your ass on the way cunt." Why? Simply because I am woman?????

I am woman, first and foremost. I have heart. I have feelings and even though I am good at keeping them at bay when I get hurt, I shouldn't have to. I wanted more from HUBGFE and wanted to give more in return. I simply feel that I can not do that here. I would never take away from someone their right to their opinion or their postings. However, I do not have to subject myself to them. I am not going to be the one to hold the target on my back while he takes shot after shot after shot.

I don't know if I am making any sense. But men and women are different and should be treated as such. Not because one is better then the other, not because one deserves more then the other, but because that is the reality. I am woman. I am an emotional based being. I have to decide if I can be here. I can be Femme. I am good at that. Bitch from hell. Tell you where to go and how to get there. That is fine. Wall up, and guard on. But I wanted to give HUBGFE what I thought was a truly special gift. The real woman behind the name, behind the persona. That person has a heart and I just don't think I can willingly hand that over to smashed and jumped on for the amusement of a select few who would use it as that.

 

[HOF]

Some guys are really into their own tats.

I prefer tits.

I have tats and I love tits too.

 

[Oceanus]

We have lost a few members lately and the boss (Emperor) doesn't like it and does not want to lose more valuable members. He wants me to covey to you all to PM him with your concerns and he will actively act upon it.

Thank you.

 

[Transient]

For any one person to come and state "the board is this", is incorrect. The forum is different things to every one that uses it. If you view it as a boy's club, then to you, it is a boy's club. If you use it as a place to exchange view points and experiences, it is that as well. Its primary purpose is as a review board for escorts, but it becomes more than that when open exchange occurs. Many of us come here and just use the Lobby, some stay exclusive to the Review sections, many use both. Each of us comes here with a different definition of what the forum is and how we use it.

 

[HOF]

A comedy of errors!​

 

[HOF]

Can we get this thread in 3D?

Wait til she gets to the bottom of box!:biggrin2:​

 

[HOF]

Wasn't this thread about Anneliese?

 

[papasmerf]

Wasn't this thread about Anneliese?

nope

more like an unattended fire in the forest.

50/50 it could engulf the forest.

 

[redvelvet]

Wasn't this thread about Anneliese?

Yes, it was.
But that is the beauty of these threads, we can change them, add to them, play with them

Enjoy them

 

[Bugsbunny]

Femme: Every board seems to have a few guys that are on a crusade against women. For the most part, this board seems to have fewer than some other boards, but that doesn't excuse the misogynistic comments. As you pointed out, he claims to be speaking for all, but I would suggest that he speaks for himself and perhaps a couple of others, which when compared to the populations here, becomes a pretty irrelevant number.

Personally, I enjoy most of the comments made on the board by both genders. This place would be a complete wasteland without the participation of the women such as yourself.

 

[Guido]

We have lost a few members lately and the boss (Emperor) doesn't like it and does not want to lose more valuable members. He wants me to covey to you all to PM him with your concerns and he will actively act upon it.

Thank you.

I want a new Mercedes, a new chain with a Mercedes emblem and a couple of black and white speedos or I'm leaving. Please convey this to the Emperor!

PS.... add in a back scratcher, thxs bud!

 

[peace]

dont you want an italian flag on your speedo????

 

[-b]

Femme, I want to say Thank You....I feel like someone understands how I feel being here....
You expressed it wonderfully......I love the board too....I call it home too...where I can laugh..
go crazy and have people I trust to help me......

I really do not think people understand the kind of abuse I got on here.....there were nights
I cried to sleep but I have other pm me to stick it out.....which I did ....my fear is going through
that again, at this time, I really can't..I do not have the energy.....My fears is not being wanted here
and having the naming calling, the ones that are not in fun.....

I do care for this board.....because there are people on here who cared for me when I could not...

Femme, please do not go.....Please......:sorry2:

No Madman, I did not come to work...it snowing under the bed....and I am building an igloo.....:rofl!: