Who is married

[tboy]

Hey Tboy, you're 51?

hey, someone got a new calculator lol (yup)

 

[a 1 player]

The next follow up question would naturally be why is it some single men engage in the hobby? ... Why would you not find a partner the old fashion dating route?

1a) Because every so often, even some of us players go through a drought
b) The GF enjoys women on occasion but does not want any emotional attachment
c) I am paying them to leave
d) All vagina DOES NOT feel the same, lets not even talk about BJ's.

2. Nothing wrong with the dating route at all, if that is what one wants.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

. I don't know why but i make lousy first impressions. .

I ain't touching that one with a ten foot pole,lol.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

But the chase is the best part :-Cool/"
Then after a couple of months the high is gone and I get bore. Does it happen to some of you?.

HAHA! You are so right. I've had girls just tell me "I don't normally do this on first dates but let's go to your place." Takes all the fun out of it.
I'm like T-rex. I'm a hunter.

 

[HOF]

Baz: I'll answer you, I'm single, and why do I partake?

A couple of reasons:
1) I do not have the time nor the inclination to "play the game" as it were to chase after a woman who frankly, doesn't want to be caught. I can't tell you how many times I've met someone, got her number, asked her out countless times, then given up only to find out via mutual friends that she actually liked me and was curious as to why I stopped calling? I mean WHAT THE HECK???? (cleaned up since you're baz lol).
2) I have found that the women I'm attracted to, aren't attracted to me. Most of the women in my age group closely resemble my grandmother. You know, boobs down to here and gut up to here?

I was talking with some guys at work the other day about this and one of them said "hey ______ you're no supermodel yourself"...I said "I know that, but do I look 65? am I fugly? Both answers were no, so I said "do you think I'm in relatively good shape"? Yeah, of course, you can't do this job if you weren't....so I said "so why should I accept a woman who is 40 lbs overweight and gets out of breath getting off the couch? When I was 20 yrs old, I had a 30 inch waist. I now have a 32 inch waist.....that's 31 yrs later. THEY WERE BEING NICE PROBABLY BECAUSE YOU HAD A NAIL GUN OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT IN HAND.:biggrin2:

3) Why should I settle for someone I'm not 100% compatible with? I have heard constantly for the past 20 yrs how it is verboten for women to consider "settling" for anything other than their dream man. I feel the same way. Why should I settle for anything less than my "dream" woman? I know, the double standard applies, women shouldn't settle but if guys don't, they're too picky. AGREED

4) I don't believe me should have to "chase" women. It boils down to this: if you're single, and a decent looking single guy asks you out, you say fucking yes....end of story. (unless of course he's picking his nose while he asks you lol). AGREED

5) I'm the type of guy that grows on you. I don't know why but i make lousy first impressions. In the past, I've basically hounded women to go on a date with me and (like many) they had an infinite number of reasons why they shouldn't. A few finally relented and said yes. 3 of them ended up dating me constantly for 5+ years.

and the bottom line: (this is a great analogy):

I'm like a farm dog lying on the grass in front of the farm house. A car would go zooming down the road and I'd go chasing after it....coughing from the dust, paws all torn from the gravel and I'd never catch it.

I finally learned: if the car wanted to be caught, it would stop in front of the house....

that's me, I'm that farm dog. I'm here, I'm out and about, and there are a lot of decent women around. If they want to be caught they should stop right in front of me......

Tboy, I like the way that you answered this and any shots are meant in good humour.

When you co-workers answered those questions, were you armed with a nail gun? :biggrin2: I didn't realize are a halfer, other side of half a century old.

Some sincere thoughts though:

1. I quite enjoy my solitude and when the urge arises I have options available.
2. I have no desire of being part of a couple and having to do anything that I do not desire doing.
3. The chase! Now the chase is making sure that the lady of my choice is available on my day(s) off and having plan b, c, d in place just in case.

Personally, I do not believe that marriage is for everyone. There are many new conventional types of relationships that are more appealing such as you keep your place and I'll keep mine is almost better than actually shacking up! A ring and a document will not be the basis for me falling in love with someone and wanting to spend the rest of my days with them. I do just fine on my own as do many others.

For those that would say what about when you grow old and nobody is there? Well, that can happen regardless of the situation.

I ask those in relationships and marriages right now, "How often do you feel alone or drowning?" It can go to this extent as well, "The woman who after 25+ years says she's leaving because she has lost her identity and it's the man's fault." or "The man who leaves for another woman that is younger after taking the best years of his wife." Well, I believe both would at fault in both situations because we have the ability and responsibility in marriages and relationships to keep vibrant, bodies change but appeal shouldn't! I know women that are considered BBW's but have more sex appeal and are willing to be adventurous sexually and in general are just full of life and fun to be around, and I know women that are gorgeous and lack so much in so many ways that they are downer to be around.

So I say, enjoy life, it is a man's natural animal instinct to want to as many women as he can have, and I have no problem with women doing the same. My only thought is play safe, stay safe, do not reproduce just because you can. Enjoy life, you don't need a mate to do so, you can mate with others wherever you go. Just ask all those athletes at the Olympics!

 

[HOF]

hey, someone got a new calculator lol (yup)

:biggrin2:
:good:

New batteries!

 

[HOF]

But the chase is the best part :-Cool/"

Then after a couple of months the high is gone and I get bore. Does it happen to some of you?.

The chase is aligning your schedule with the SP of your choice! :-Cool/"

 

[-b]

May I remind some of you guys that you are paying the women.....
That you are not getting these women other than with money...
So you pay .....this is not like back in the stone age...or knights..
because the guys who were the strongest and build the biggest
would be the ones with the women.....

Most of the 25 to 35 yr old women are dating their age or 5 years older....
Just saying don't confuse Dating and Paying.....

 

[HOF]

No need to remind any of the men here, we pay them to leave and be quiet when leaving.

 

[tboy]

I ain't touching that one with a ten foot pole,lol.

how about a 6 foot chezch?

 

[tboy]

May I remind some of you guys that you are paying the women.....
That you are not getting these women other than with money...
So you pay .....this is not like back in the stone age...or knights..
because the guys who were the strongest and build the biggest
would be the ones with the women.....

Most of the 25 to 35 yr old women are dating their age or 5 years older....
Just saying don't confuse Dating and Paying.....

let me address some of your points:
1) dating and paying: sorry, we pay no matter what, whether it is up front as it is with an escort, or via "purchases" (like dinners) to a civvie. No matter what, most of the time, we pay. SUre, there are a few women who have embraced equality, but I haven't met any.....(usually the sharing comes after a relationship has begun).
2) 25 to 35 yr old women and young guys. Oddly enough, when I was in my early 40's I dated a girl 22. When out with her friends, the subject came up and they said (and others I've spoken to) prefer older guys because: we are usually more stable, know our way around a woman's body, usually don't have a problem raising money for a nice bottle of wine with dinner, are more knowledgable, can converse on any manner of intelligent subjects (other than how much beer we drank at a party) etc. While we may not be able to cum 10 times a night, we can last all night.
3) Knights etc: sorry, but the guys with the biggest house, nicest car, flashiest clothes, and the biggest "wallet" still get the women.....that part hasn't changed much.

 

[Annabelle]

No need to remind any of the men here, we pay them to leave and be quiet when leaving.

...and for some patrons, our biggest sigh of relief comes in hearing that door click closed behind us as we leave. Goes both ways HOF, don't kid yourself, lover. All women are not goddesses (although we like to pretend), but in my experience, only a very small percentage of men are actually Prince Charmings. Don't ever fool yourself into thinking your worth is greater than hers. It's called misogyny, and frowed upon in modern society. Ladies, never take the men's interest or presence for granted - they are as fickle as we are, and "one" is a lonelier (and less profitable LOL!) number than "two"! :LMAO:

 

[-b]

No need to remind any of the men here, we pay them to leave and be quiet when leaving.

Not reminding the other guys just you ......since you want to know....Oh you did not ask
well I am saying.....

 

[-b]

let me address some of your points:
1) dating and paying: sorry, we pay no matter what, whether it is up front as it is with an escort, or via "purchases" (like dinners) to a civvie. No matter what, most of the time, we pay. SUre, there are a few women who have embraced equality, but I haven't met any.....(usually the sharing comes after a relationship has begun).
2) 25 to 35 yr old women and young guys. Oddly enough, when I was in my early 40's I dated a girl 22. When out with her friends, the subject came up and they said (and others I've spoken to) prefer older guys because: we are usually more stable, know our way around a woman's body, usually don't have a problem raising money for a nice bottle of wine with dinner, are more knowledgable, can converse on any manner of intelligent subjects (other than how much beer we drank at a party) etc. While we may not be able to cum 10 times a night, we can last all night.
3) Knights etc: sorry, but the guys with the biggest house, nicest car, flashiest clothes, and the biggest "wallet" still get the women.....that part hasn't changed much.

So you keep bringing up the 22 year old....I am proud of you tboy....she is with you still?
If you are still paying to go out to dinner with women these days well I feel sorry for you
because most women now either pay for themselves or they take turns with the guy...Maybe
you are showing them you are easy or you are not dating strong independent women, I do
not know......

 

[Jesus Quintana]

Yah, sorry Bliss but I'm gonna declare bullshit on you here.
T is about my age and there is something inherently wrong to me to take a girl or a woman out and have her pay for dinner.
It's about the hard wiring in a guy of our age and older.

 

[-b]

Yah, sorry Bliss but I'm gonna declare bullshit on you here.
T is about my age and there is something inherently wrong to me to take a girl or a woman out and have her pay for dinner.
It's about the hard wiring in a guy of our age and older.

But it is your choice to pay right.....You make the move to pay...It is the way you
were raise the guys pay. But you can not blame the women for not paying then.
I pay, I even pay if I take friends out. Now my friends pay for me too when they
take me out....then there is Drinking, well who ever can sign their name pays....:LMAO:
Shit that's me because I can not drink....:grrrrrr:

 

[tboy]

But it is your choice to pay right.....You make the move to pay...It is the way you
were raise the guys pay. But you can not blame the women for not paying then.
I pay, I even pay if I take friends out. Now my friends pay for me too when they
take me out....then there is Drinking, well who ever can sign their name pays....:LMAO:
Shit that's me because I can not drink....:grrrrrr:

Bliss, i love it when you produce a post that states you agree with me.....in case you didn't realize it, I'll explain where you state you agree with me:

"I even pay if I take friends out"...."now my friends pay for me too when they take me out".......That means whomever is taking someone out, they pay right? Now when a guy takes a woman out, he pays right? Same as when you take friends out, when they take you out......get it? got it? good.....

 

[peace]

Funny, when I am with a woman, I often pay. Rarely I see them put up a fight to pay. Instead they just look at me as if I am so super sweet.
There were a few times where one did pay but ended up being upset about it. In other cases, after the 10th dates, she would go out of her way to pay for the dinner. Go figure....Of course I am not speaking for everyone. I am just basing on my experience.

 

[Linda]

An interesting thread. Everyone has a reason for what they do and there's absolutely nothing wrong with doing what makes one happy as long as they are not harming anyone.

 

[HOF]

An interesting thread. Everyone has a reason for what they do and there's absolutely nothing wrong with doing what makes one happy as long as they are not harming anyone.

Linda once again you are a breathe of freshness!

Now, why is bazerko here? It's not to save us, because nobody here wants saving! Why isn't he doting on Ida! I'll tell you why because he secretly wants to fornicate with you and many others.