Advice Needed

[Sophia Sinclair]

Gentlemen,

I am going to bring up a delicate, possibly ego crushing subject for some.

The main/usual reason I pull back from kissing a client or performing fellatio is because of body odour, and I'm not talking about a renegade "toot" from the guy or gal, which can be quite humorous. How does one diplomatically tell a visitor to freshen up mid session? I've had clients that when told at the beginning of a get together that I have all the amenities (e.g. soft disposable toothbrushes, mouth wash, individual bars of soap, etc.) explain that they're fine and then when I kiss them it's very unpleasant (e.g. stale garlic, etc.) or when I go down there all I can smell is "bum". I never say anything and suffer through it as much as I can, but always wonder/feel that they probably left not fully satisfied as I know I wasn't as into it as I could have been. I'm so worried that if I say something the gentleman might become embarrassed/self conscious, which could ruin our playtime, and when I've tried subtlety they just don't seem to get it.

Any suggestions?

Thank You in Advance,
Miss Sinful Sophia

 

[papasmerf]

start you sessions with a shower and make it clear in your ads you expect good hygiene.

Showers are very erotic for both

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

True, but mutual showers create a very big problem for me. I have fairly long hair that takes a 1/2 hr to dry and despite putting it up, it often gets wet due to water spraying off the gentleman's shoulder directly into my face, etc.

 

[papasmerf]

True, but mutual showers create a very big problem for me. I have fairly long hair that takes a 1/2 hr to dry and despite putting it up, it often gets wet due to water spraying off the gentleman's shoulder directly into my face, etc.

then offer a special that includes a sensual bath for him.
call it the ultimate pampering.

Draw a bath with salts and bubbles and lead him to the tub. Bathe him with lots of touching and small pecks on his body.

word will get out and you will be spending 3 times more on your water bill

 

[Wanker]

During my hobby days the sp always handed me a towel to hit the showers. Even though I always showered before seeing them I took one so to give her peace of mind and to get better YMMV.

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

then offer a special that includes a sensual bath for him.
call it the ultimate pampering.

Draw a bath with salts and bubbles and lead him to the tub. Bathe him with lots of touching and small pecks on his body.

word will get out and you will be spending 3 times more on your water bill

Never thought of that, excellent suggestion!

I no longer use a condo, so my hotel incidental bill may go up. :wink2:

 

[papasmerf]

Never thought of that, excellent suggestion!

I no longer use a condo, so my hotel incidental bill may go up. :wink2:

you will likely need more towels
Brawny paper towels are not an option

also book suites with whirlpool jet tubs

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

During my hobby days the sp always handed me a towel to hit the showers. Even though I always showered before seeing them I took one so to give her peace of mind and to get better YMMV.

Bless you for being a gentleman and a scholar!

The problem is that due to hair, which can trap odours, even after taking a shower an odour can remain due to insufficient scrubbing.

True Story:

I once was giving a gentleman a massage and had to discreetly pull toilet paper out of his crack. No it wasn't soiled. It was all I could do not to giggle and possibly hurt his feelings, but it actually endeared him to me as I think he was trying so hard to be clean down there that it literally 'back'fired on him.

 

[-b]

If it was me I would tell them.....Make it a game....Like, You been a bad man...I need to wash
your butt then your mouth....and if you say anything I will have to sit on your face.....:biggrin2:

 

[HOF]

True, but mutual showers create a very big problem for me. I have fairly long hair that takes a 1/2 hr to dry and despite putting it up, it often gets wet due to water spraying off the gentleman's shoulder directly into my face, etc.

Problem solved! :wink2:xo

You have gorgeous hair!

I'd actually like to wash it one day.​

 

[HOF]

Never thought of that, excellent suggestion!

I no longer use a condo, so my hotel incidental bill may go up. :wink2:

Why not buy some inexpensive towels that you can take home and wash? Might cut down on some expense, might not.

 

[HOF]

Bless you for being a gentleman and a scholar!

The problem is that due to hair, which can trap odours, even after taking a shower an odour can remain due to insufficient scrubbing.

True Story:

I once was giving a gentleman a massage and had to discreetly pull toilet paper out of his crack. No it wasn't soiled. It was all I could do not to giggle and possibly hurt his feelings, but it actually endeared him to me as I think he was trying so hard to be clean down there that it literally 'back'fired on him.

Sophia, you promised not to tell that story! :no:

 

[papasmerf]

Sophia, you promised not to tell that story! :no:

Guido PMed the same story months ago

 

[HOF]

Okay now for some real suggestions and I'll pull some information from other posts and put it all together.

1. Handing a towel over to the client.
2. Wash cloth and some witty comment "crack kills, wash it for both our sakes." "Make sure you clean where the sun don't shine baby!"
3. Shower cap is a serious idea.
4. Bath takes sometime to fill up! If it's an extended visit, it would work or a bath for two if possible.
5. Be direct prior to the client showering.

I always bring my own towel, wash cloth, soap, toothbrush, paste, mouthrinse and deodorant. In fact, I come out smelling like an Irish Spring, with minty fresh breath and I bought 6 Toronto Maple Leaf wash cloths strictly to use on the exit. I mean the Leafs and the exit do stink!:rofl!:

 

[Guido]

Guido PMed the same story months ago

HEY, Sophia has experienced the Guido Experience.

SORRY Tboy, I had to use it!:biggrin2:

I showered before and after as one should. Sophia never suffered through a dirty Guido, only a naughty one!

Hand them the towel at the beginning and DO NOT take no for an answer!!

 

[Bill The Pirate]

HEY, Sophia has experienced the Guido Experience.

SORRY Tboy, I had to use it!:biggrin2:

I showered before and after as one should. Sophia never suffered through a dirty Guido it, only a naughty one!


Hand them the towel at the beginning and DO NOT take no for an answer!!

+1

 

[FUKUMAN]

Sophia, you promised not to tell that story! :no:

:Thatwas-bad: :no:

 

[Baz]

Sophia, no one should have to work under unsanitary conditions. I may not approve of your career choice but I will state openly you should stand your ground and enforce policies of hygiene!

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

HOF,

You "crack" me up.

So, it looks like I'm going to have to grow some "kahuna's". Ha ha guys, just kidding, only "ben wa balls" down there.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

I've had this happen once where the gentleman did shower but the scent of smoke still lingered in his facial and pelvic hair. I didn't know what to do at the time. Thought about it later and decided that if I should see him again, or have any such instance occur again, I'd speak up and say, "I am so sorry but I have really sensitive allergies and for some reason I am having a reaction. Can you pretty please have a second shower and scrub more thoroughly?"