Partaking in Pay for Play with the Spouse

[peace]

I can still remember the women I have had sex with. Perhaps, I don't do it too often (re:different women) but if given a chance, I would love to explore those Asian women from the Asian thread. lol

 

[-b]

Many moons ago in the mid eighties my wife and I split up and agreed to start seeing other people.

I then ventured into a relationship with a co-worker.

She told me she wanted to attend a party one weekend in Montreal. Wanting to please her I agreed.

Wasn't to long after we arrived at this mansion on the North Shore that I figured out it was a swingers party.

She knew all along but thought that it was best that I didn't know ahead of time. And she was right.

There must of been 25 or so couples there and it was very intimidating too say the least.

Thank God there was a lot of pot there and I was able to get over the original anxiety that I experienced.

To my amazement I found myself enjoying watching my girlfriend have sex with strangers.

So much so that we went back 2 or 3 times each month for about 6 months before we broke up and I reconciled with my wife.

Looking back it was the best of times but also the worst of times.

Sure I acted out every fantasy I ever had and probably had sex with scores and scores of women. But now I see it as very superficial and meaningless.

The thing that bothers me the most is that it kind of of opened a Pandora's box of sorts with my sexual psyche.

I had a hard time adjusting going back to be monogamous with my wife. I was fighting temptations that I never had before.

Truth be told if I knew then what I know now about myself I would have never gone down that road. For me it is best left as a fantasy and not reality.

Bosco, I would not have pegged you for regretting this.....You both could have broken up for other reasons later on....If you did this or if you did that, it may not have mattered....

 

[Baz]

Maurice, thank you for sharing your story. It seems to me you now have reservations about partaking in what I shall refer to as the forbidden fruit. It seemed to of opened up a new world of temptation for you which you were unable to resist. I'm not trying to judge you but instead I understand, temptation is never easy and as humans we all succumb one way or another. The temptation can come as a quick pay day, sins of the flesh or during a fit of anger, it's always very tempting and as we grow older we start to realize the good and the bad of most situations.

Thank you Ms. Sarah for your understanding as well. I do have different opinions and values of most here and i know it can be upsetting for some to read what I posts. Again, I have given up a long time ago trying to change anyone, I am merely here out of curiosity and as an escape from my normal life. I do admit, this is an entirely different world than my own.

 

[Baz]

I can still remember the women I have had sex with. Perhaps, I don't do it too often (re:different women) but if given a chance, I would love to explore those Asian women from the Asian thread. lol

Peace, I'm assuming you are not of Asian decent. If you don't mind me asking, what attracts you so much to Asian women? Is it the culture, the facial features etc...?? If truth be known I do find Japanese women very attractive. I find their distinct facial features as well as the black hair against their pale complexion quite alluring. I guess this is why I was attracted to my Ida, although not Japanese she does possess the look except for the eyes.

 

[chokemychicken]

Baz/Brent I'm surprised to still find you here, how have you been and how are Ida and Linda doing??

 

[Robintheboywonder]

Baz/Brent I'm surprised to still find you here, how have you been and how are Ida and Linda doing??

Where the hell do you think Baz is going to go? The kingdom halls and the little pamphlets they give out are boring compared to the juicy reading he can do here. :biggrin2:

 

[Baz]

Baz/Brent I'm surprised to still find you here, how have you been and how are Ida and Linda doing??

Thank you so much for asking Bob, both Ida and are are doing very well and Linda is doing phenomenal. She met a terrific gentlemen and both have been seriously dating for sometime now.

Robin, I'm sorry to disappoint you but I am not a Jehovah Witness and I've never been in a Kingdom Hall.

 

[Blank_Dave]

Peace, I'm assuming you are not of Asian decent. If you don't mind me asking, what attracts you so much to Asian women? Is it the culture, the facial features etc...??

Same reason some guys like small women. They have small peckers, so they have to find women with small vaginas to make them feel big.

 

[Blank_Dave]

Can I borrow a spouse just to try it please??

SillyG, want to be my temporary wife??raying:

I found your wife, MM.

 

[peace]

Same reason some guys like small women. They have small peckers, so they have to find women with small vaginas to make them feel big.

...interesting theory but its just a theory. :biggrin2:

 

[peace]

Peace, I'm assuming you are not of Asian decent. If you don't mind me asking, what attracts you so much to Asian women? Is it the culture, the facial features etc...?? If truth be known I do find Japanese women very attractive. I find their distinct facial features as well as the black hair against their pale complexion quite alluring. I guess this is why I was attracted to my Ida, although not Japanese she does possess the look except for the eyes.

Actually Baz, I am attracted to all kinds of women especially if they are extremely intelligent, easy going, respectful, simple and most importantly, they have a safe and calm demeanor. I concur with you regarding Japanese women but not all of them are attractive. When I was in Japan, it was interesting to see many beautiful and ugly women but rarely in between. Then again, this is all superficial as there is more than being a beautiful woman.

 

[Blank_Dave]

...interesting theory but its just a theory. :biggrin2:

Sorry about your luck then....

 

[peace]

AWW you are showing off your picture. bliss will be delighted.

 

[-b]

AWW you are showing off your picture. bliss will be delighted.

:slap:

Peace stop playing with Dave :wink2:

 

[Baz]

Ladies and gentlemen, is it really necessary to derail my thread with inane posts as well as unrelated and inappropriate pictures.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Ladies and gentlemen, is it really necessary to derail my thread with inane posts as well as unrelated and inappropriate pictures.

Yes it is,lol.

 

[Art Mann]

Ladies and gentlemen, is it really necessary to derail my thread with inane posts as well as unrelated and inappropriate pictures.

Welcome to HUBGFE, Baz.

 

[User-E]

Welcome to HUBGFE, Baz.

lmao :LMAO:

 

[thesun]

Again, Baz what do you think of her?

 

[thesun]

Sorry about your luck then....

Interesting color as I see a bit of PURPLE.
Hmmmmmm