'don't dress like a whore'

[genuine72]

I'm just glad I was there to stop that shit... before any real "contact" happened.

I've seen her struggle and get better through therapy, she's my cousin by the way, and now she's happily married.

However, I think I should see a shrink as well because I got some transference BS going on here.
Any time I see rape related subject matter, may it be in literature, movies, etc. I literally want to reach in the novel, movie, etc. and punch the fictional character.
And no, my family doesn't have abuse problems which my own feeling might stem from.

I went over this with the psychologist and psychiatrist my cousin was seeing at the time, and the pretty much said it's most likely because I feel guilty somehow for not being there on time.
Which makes sense, because if I was there probably a minute earlier, I could have prevented the whole ordeal by just being with her as she was getting home.


Anyways, back the the related matter.


I do believe women should consider the somewhat higher likeability that rapers gonna rape more readily when they have a explicit stimulus.
They should just be prepared, may it be a can of mace or a pinkstudded taser, or martial arts.

A lot of guys are ready to defend themselves, and in the process get fit. So why not women?

Part of my cousin's therapy was getting her confidence/power back and being sure of her self.
I suggested to her therapist that I wanted to take her to the MMA gym I go to, and let her learn self defence; I suggested taking Jujitsu.
She thought it was a good idea, so I did, and it did wonders for her recovery process.
Jujitsu being more dependent on leverage and technique than size and strength, fit her bill perfectly.

As a person who just started taking Jujitsu myself, it was fairly easy for a 5'4 105lbs girl to submit unsuspecting 5'11" over 200lbs guy (me) with a figure 4 and a RNC (Rear Naked Choke).
Those tiny arms seem to fit right into, under my jaw line... Felt like some sorta gremlin was choking me out from my back...

As some on stated, rape is much about domination/power.
If a woman knows close combat defence, the raper; unknowingly thinking his being "dominant", will rush a girl, and end up with a dislocated arm :YMAPPLAUSE:
How you like em apples

rue that,when my sister decided to move out years ago,me and my uncles made sure to "equipped " her well IF something comes up,pepper spray and all,better safe than sorry ...

And you are right about rappers gotta rape,it's a damn shame that some people will always get judged by the way she was dressed she was looking for it ,agreed it is a power thrill more than a sexual craving ...

Not saying women couldn't dress as they want to but in reality one is forced to realize it is safer to dress less exposed at night ,as much as daytime ,better safe than sorry IMO ...

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

I actually decided against the gun for now. So I'm unarmed.

Besides, I don't know where I would carry the gun wearing that slutty red dress. :LMAO:

Wouldn't said slutty red dress not come with a suitable matching purse, lovely one?

 

[tboy]

Not saying women couldn't dress as they want to but in reality one is forced to realize it is safer to dress less exposed at night ,as much as daytime ,better safe than sorry IMO ...

NoooOOOoooOOOooo don't say that, jesus, bliss will get all up in arms again......don't advocate common sense, jesus, that's just plain wrong!!!! If bliss wants to reccommend that women walk around dressed like whores, then who are we to argue!!!

I just want to add, at least according to bliss, that the cops should easily be able to catch the guy who sexually assaulted the 5 women in the west end recently...since, according to her, all the victims MUST know their attacker since, according to her stats, they are committed by a friend or family member.....

 

[Madman]

Um, excuse me but I'm still waiting for a young lady to grope me or pinch my ass!!

 

[tboy]

Um, excuse me but I'm still waiting for a young lady to grope me or pinch my ass!!

do you have a family reunion coming up soon? lol.......

 

[-b]

I said Women should have the equal right to wear or do what men do....

So Brent would you walk down those streets drunk and money hanging out your
pockets....if NO then why would I....

So if you will not do it, then why would I.....

tboy you assume that dressing like a Whore is a bad thing....
You really have issues with women...

I love being a Whore and if you talk to most men they love marrying one..
Or having a Mistress etc...But you did forget the Issues of Men Whores....

We are all Whores love in some way or another.......

I do not like the word because people have this idea in their head.....Escorting
is better......Also dividing people up and classifying them, well, that is not ok in my books...
tboy I did not say not to use Common Sense....Most women know that but your views come
across as women are either evil or need to be saved....

 

[SillyGirl]

Um, excuse me but I'm still waiting for a young lady to grope me or pinch my ass!!

 

[Madman]

SillyG, I can't tell if that dude on the couch is a girl or guy:biggrin2:

This has happened to me the last time I tried being friendly



This was Peace trying to make me feel better


Blissful tried to help too



but what I'm after is

 

[genuine72]

I said Women should have the equal right to wear or do what men do....

So Brent would you walk down those streets drunk and money hanging out your
pockets....if NO then why would I....

So if you will not do it, then why would I.....

tboy you assume that dressing like a Whore is a bad thing....
You really have issues with women...

Nope it ain't ,BUT,most ppl like to see less and let their imagination do the work ;-) It's like when u get a present ,you wanna be the first to unwrap it ,thinking/guessing IS as good as unwrapping it IMO ...
he doesn't have issues towards women,but u seems to have some towards us men.,.

I love being a Whore and if you talk to most men they love marrying one..
Or having a Mistress etc...But you did forget the Issues of Men Whores....

Yup,BUT,only in the bedroom,act/dress like a lady but behave like a whore in bed...
We are all Whores love in some way or another.......

I do not like the word because people have this idea in their head.....Escorting
is better......Also dividing people up and classifying them, well, that is not ok in my books...
tboy I did not say not to use Common Sense....Most women know that but your views come
across as women are either evil or need t
You have a very narrow way of thinking,he doesnt have a bad opinion abt women,seems very respectful and polite,you my dear,on the other way,you need tO sit down and analyze yourself,maybe you see what he says in such a negative way because deeP inside,you share the thought...

 

[-b]

You have a very narrow way of thinking,he doesnt have a bad opinion abt women,seems very respectful and polite,you my dear,on the other way,you need tO sit down and analyze yourself,maybe you see what he says in such a negative way because deeP inside,you share the thought...

Thank You for telling me How I should Feel......What you think I should think and how I should behave....
Maybe you should do the same....and if you have any idea the History tboy has with me and some other women you should stay out of it......

As I stated I never said not to use Common Sense....I said If a Man can do it so can a women....
So if you are throwing around, would I walk down a bad part of town drunk with money, well will you guys...

Thank You for your thoughts.....:biggrin2:

 

[genuine72]

Personnal problems/religion/politics are all subjects that must stay on your door step when you leave home...Other than coming on here and ask for an advice about an issue it is NOT ok to wash your dirty laundry on a public forum IMO

My dear,I am sure you are a very good person but the way you behave on here does not make you look good...

 

[-b]

My dear,I am sure you are a very good person but the way you behave on here does not make you look good...

Excuse me, what right do you have to comment about what I write.....Who are you....
If the mods want me off then they have the right to do that....
So complain to them....

Do I see a pattern here, all of a sudden people want me to leave....if that is the case just
say it....and stop pissing around the Bush....

If you do not like what I write then Ignore me.....If you want me off of here tell me so...
Man and Woman up....don't play with your words......
Shit Start a Poll if you want too ......

It amazing how others right about things that happen to them .......I am not sure who you
are.......But I really am starting to see a Pattern.....

 

[genuine72]

Whatever you want,just so you know I am not a bully as I have been bullied back in elementary school.I just have empathy for you and kinda feel sorry for you and genuinely try to help you with some advices,I treat ppl the way I want to be treated ,with respect in any situations...

This is my last post/reply to you as I feel u kinda enjoy the attention this gives you...

 

[tboy]

Gen: yeah, I personally think she plays "dumb" strickly for the attention.....and as I said earlier, she can't see the forest for the trees.....when someone makes a suggestion to her, she hears "he's TELLING me what to do"......if that suggestion is "it might be a good idea if you don't do _____" she takes that as a man telling her what she can and cannot do...ignoring the fact that the main subject of this thread is what a WOMAN said.....

 

[-b]

Whatever you want,just so you know I am not a bully as I have been bullied back in elementary school.I just have empathy for you and kinda feel sorry for you and genuinely try to help you with some advices,I treat ppl the way I want to be treated ,with respect in any situations...

This is my last post/reply to you as I feel u kinda enjoy the attention this gives you...

Whatever....You were not giving advice....you were telling me....if MB or Madman or a 1 player ask me to think about something I would but they have never Told me how I should feel or how to think...and that is the difference...you sure your not tboy brother.....What I answer you what twice and I enjoy the attention...come on....all of a sudden it now I want Attention.......Hmmmmmm

 

[tboy]

I said Women should have the equal right to wear or do what men do....THEY DO HAVE THE SAME RIGHT TO WEAR OR DO WHAT MEN DO......NO ONE SAID THEY DIDN'T....WELL, MAYBE YOU DID......

So Brent would you walk down those streets drunk and money hanging out your
pockets....if NO then why would I....I DUNNO, YOU SEEM TO BE ARGUING FOR THE RIGHT TO DO THAT.....MAYBE JUST TO PROVE YOU CAN?

So if you will not do it, then why would I.....BECAUSE YOU SEEM TO BE ARGUING FOR THE RIGHT TO DO IT.....

tboy you assume that dressing like a Whore is a bad thing....IT SOME CIRCUMSTANCES? YES IT IS A BAD THING. I BET 99.9% OF THE FATHERS ON HERE WOULDN'T WANT THEIR DAUGHTERS DRESSING LIKE A WHORE AND PERSONALLY, I WOUDLN'T WANT MY WIFE OR GF DRESSING LIKE ONE (IN PUBLIC)
You really have issues with women...NO, JUST SOME WOMEN, NAMELY YOU....AND THOSE LIKE YOU...THOSE WHO ARE SO NARROW MINDED THAT THEY JUST CAN'T FOLLOW AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION.......

I love being a Whore and if you talk to most men they love marrying one..SORRY, YOU ARE 100% WRONG ON THAT....MEN DON'T LOVE MARRYING WHORES, THEY LOVE WOMEN WHO MIGHT ACT LIKE WHORES IN THE BEDROOM.....OK, SOME MEN LIKE WATCHING THEIR WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN AND A FEW MIGHT WANT THEIR WOMEN TO HAVE SEX FOR MONEY BUT THE VAST MAJORITY DON'T.....

Or having a Mistress etc...But you did forget the Issues of Men Whores....THIS ISN'T ABOUT MAN WHORES, THIS IS ABOUT WOMEN DRESSING LIKE ONE IN PUBLIC....ONCE AGAIN, YOU ARE ARGUING A POINT THAT DOESN'T EVEN BELONG IN THIS CONVERSATION.....THIS ISN'T ABOUT MAN WHORES, THIS IS ABOUT WOMEN NOT DRESSING LIKE ONE IN PUBLIC, GET THAT THROUGH YOUR THICK SKULL......

We are all Whores love in some way or another.......ONCE AGAIN, YOU'RE ARGUING A POINT THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE SUBJECT......

I do not like the word because people have this idea in their head.....Escorting
is better......Also dividing people up and classifying them, well, that is not ok in my books...
tboy I did not say not to use Common Sense....YES YOU DID...YOU POSTED AND ARGUED THAT WOMEN SHOULD DRESS LIKE WHORES, GO WHERE THEY WANT, DO WHAT THEY WANT BECAUSE MEN DO.......AND THEN YOU POSTED THAT MOST RAPES OCCUR IN ONE'S HOME SO THERE IS NO WORRY ABOUT GOING OUT AND WALKING IN DARK PLACES AT NIGHT.....

Most women know that but your views come
across as women are either evil or need to be saved....ONLY TO YOU, MOST HERE AGREE THAT I DON'T CODDLE TO WOMEN SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY HAVE A PUSSY...I TREAT THEM NO DIFFERENT THAN THE MEN HERE......

Because you obviously have forgotten the point of this thread, let me remind you:

It is about a woman suggesting that it might be prudent for women to not dress like whores in public.......this isn't about men telling women what to do, this isn't about men telling women what to/or not to wear, this isn't about where other rapes occur, this isn't about who rapes women...this is about just one more piece of advice that might help women avoid becoming a victim.....if you disagree then put your money where your mouth is....write to the sun and post publically that you feel that women should dress like whores.........just be aware that if a woman reads it, and follows your advice and does happen to get assaulted, you might be found culpable and could face civil or criminal charges.......

BTW: why aren't you arging with sillygirl? she stated openly that she has a hot red dress and won't wear it in public.......therefore following the advice that you so adamantly disagree with........

 

[SillyGirl]

FFS, please leave me out of this. I have real problems to worry about tonight.

 

[genuine72]

Gen: yeah, I personally think she plays "dumb" strickly for the attention.....and as I said earlier, she can't see the forest for the trees.....when someone makes a suggestion to her, she hears "he's TELLING me what to do"......if that suggestion is "it might be a good idea if you don't do _____" she takes that as a man telling her what she can and cannot do...ignoring the fact that the main subject of this thread is what a WOMAN said.....

True,but from my experience,what I saw,etc ,I have plenty of homosexual friends,women and men,and never did I heard them saying out loud they are gay and start belittle the opposite gender as this is why I am gay and all.Actually they even dislike the gay parade as they feel it just shows the bad apples and is a reason why so many ppl judge them...If you need to say ur gay in order to justify your actions,then I think there is some serious Personnal issues about yourself and some lack of self-esteem,just my 2 cents...

Not saying it is wrong or right ,but it ain't the best way to make friends...

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

FFS, please leave me out of this. I have real problems to worry about tonight.

Dr.Maurice is here for you SG.

 

[-b]

Because you obviously have forgotten the point of this thread, let me remind you:

It is about a woman suggesting that it might be prudent for women to not dress like whores in public.......this isn't about men telling women what to do, this isn't about men telling women what to/or not to wear, this isn't about where other rapes occur, this isn't about who rapes women...this is about just one more piece of advice that might help women avoid becoming a victim.....if you disagree then put your money where your mouth is....write to the sun and post publically that you feel that women should dress like whores.........just be aware that if a woman reads it, and follows your advice and does happen to get assaulted, you might be found culpable and could face civil or criminal charges.......

BTW: why aren't you arging with sillygirl? she stated openly that she has a hot red dress and won't wear it in public.......therefore following the advice that you so adamantly disagree with........

tboy that woman who made that comment on her tweeter was inundated with so many women telling her what an idiot she is.......that the women attacked were dress like as you would say Normal.....that they were walking home....etc......

Each woman knows what they would wear or not wear....because each of us have our own way of protecting ourselves.....I took up martial arts....so have other women.....kick boxing....carrying key pointing out so if I hit with a punch I will be hitting with the key first....I know how to take a punch, kick and how to avoid them......I use Common Sense....but a lot of women do .....

She has no standing what so ever.....it is 2012 not 1950ties....She was doing this for attention and she got more than she could bite off.......