Hey all - question for the "advanced" members here:
Who has been to an event where there are multiple ladies and a similar number of clients for several hours? I am curious to know if you enjoyed it, and if you have any reservations about it.
I've read about these - like the Love Jones Experience - and on the one hand, they seem like a fantastic excuse to let my inner Caligula out, on the other, I don't know if the actual event could live up to the expectations. I'm a fairly mild-mannered guy and while I do have an inner freak / horn dog, it is wrapped up in levels of normalcy and even shyness. Wondering how would I react to other guys in my space, is there alpha male competition shit going on for the women's attention, etc etc etc.
Thoughts?
I'm not an "advanced" member here but I've participated in several of these "orgy" parties. Wrote about . The others all took place before I joined this community. I can honestly say I thoroughly enjoyed it. Yes, I had my reservations and the same questions you bring up... would it match my expectations, how would I react/feel in a group setting, how would it be standing there with a bunch of other naked, horny guys.
It was after reading a review of one of these encounters that I got in touch with the organizer, said I had to be part of the next one as it was a fantasy/bucket list item of mine and then explained my reservations. He answered all my questions but even right up to the minute I walked through the door of my first group orgy, I was still nervous - more nervous than meeting some of the ladies one-on-one for the first time.
Once I got there, the attitude of the ladies present -all of whom were ladies I had read about but never seen - and yes, even the guys selected, was very calming and reassuring. All the guys got along great and there was a mutual respect for each other and the ladies were super awesome - a couple of whom had never done anything like this before. There's a general small talk, get to know each other period and then it just starts - some kissing, some disrobing.. most of the guys are already undressed except for a towel as they've all showered. And it just goes from there.
Once you get into the sex part, you don't notice anything else. Unless you are double teaming one of the ladies (with her consent of course), your doing your thing and someone else may join in but for the most part its a one-on-one encounter. The only difference, once you've satiated your curiosity with one lady, you move on to someone else - or they come and seek you out!
The other big question/concern I hear is about "finishing" too early. Hey, if the ladies are as good as we all say they are, then there's no shame in being the first one to pop or cumming "early". If you can hold out for the entire 2 hour party, more power to you. If you blow in the first 5 min, then you've got 1:55 minutes to get another two or three shots off.
The idea is to go in with an open mind, respect boundaries and just enjoy yourself.
The other question that gets asked is about the money. I've donated between 800 and 1K for these parties. It's not something you do every week, granted. Think about it this way, you're going to see min. 4 ladies over a two hour period so you do the math.
It's not for everyone, whether it be because you're not comfortable in a group setting or the money, but if you're open minded enough, you might just have the time of your life.
See you at the next party!!!:biggrin2:
